Mwandinesa my nephew am glad that you are following my truck. Days are moving fast, i use to lift you up on my shoulders , now as bemba proverbs say,"inshiku shalingenye umwana na nyina". See now tulelingana and the time has come for you to be complete, you're getting married on the 17th day of July,2026. All i wish i'll be there with you necha boi, oh yeah see now in no time you will be the head of your own house necha boi the pride of our family, may the God bless your marriage to the fullest extent and may you have peace in your marriage. All i wish i'll be there with you there on your wedding day Now that am laoded with some, let me just write this song to you....Necha boy oh Necha boy, the pressure of our family.see not all what we expect in marriage happen the way we might expecting because we are not perfect. So we don't expect marriage to be perfect, what you may be thinking might be different from what your spouse may be thinking.. And you're aware that women are weaker vessel therefore you must live with your wife according to the knowledge Jehovah has impact on you.nech boy. Women are too emotional and they don't easily hold back from quarrel...if you want peace in your home, when your wife is angry, never get angry, be calm and ask for forgiveness even if you haven't done wrong. Never neglect Gods principal . they'll probably guide you in having successful marriage. Never laid your hand to your wife even if she wronged you.. By doing so you'll gain respect from your wife and her family. Mr kaluwe...i believe that you will be a good because i know how my sister and my brother inlaw mr and mrs kaluwe groom you. I believe you'll take good care of my inlaw and i'll be always be happy when i hear that you're living in a peacefully manner in you home. I can't wait to see you bringing lovely grandchildren.. Ahhhh Necha boi the king of Ndola. Think of it, that day you'll be a king with a queen along your side causing the multitude that will gather on your big dancing with happy and shining faces . ohh what a great occasion... Ndola king oh no pass my regards to your mother, judith Chilambe popularly known as mrs kaluwe, your father mr kaluwe, your grandmother bamupeta and the entire family. Tell them i really love them